What Your Kids Are Doing That You Don’t Know About

A wakeup call for every parent

Do you remember those old public service announcements that asked, “It’s 10 PM, do you know where your children are?” The world has become a much more complicated place and it’s not enough now to just know where they are. You need to know what they’re doing too. From the digital world to new and dangerous drugs, they’re potentially being exposed to things you’ve never heard of.

K2, Spice, Potpourri. They may sound innocent, but they are actually street names for synthetic marijuana. One in nine high school seniors surveyed has admitted to trying them. Is your teen that one in nine? Tonya Bauer from Cyprus, Texas found out about her daughter Emily the hard way.

“I didn’t know how available it was, I didn’t know how dangerous it was.” -Tonya Bauer

Tonya Bauer’s 17-year-old daughter, Emily, was left brain damaged and paralyzed after smoking synthetic marijuana she purchased at a local gas station. Emily’s parents took her off life support after doctors said she would never regain consciousness. Miraculously, she survived and is now on the road to recovery. Emily Bauer and her stepfather, Tommy Bryant, share their story from Tier Memorial Herman Rehabilitation and Research Center in Houston, Texas.

“I thought it was legal and it couldn’t hurt me.” -Emily Bauer

Synthetic marijuana is popular because it’s easy to obtain, but it isn’t the only dangerous substance your teen may be using to get high. “Matthew” got hooked on Molly for about five months, and sold the drug to support his own habit, which included meth and heroin. He’s asked us not to use his real name. “Matthew” has been clean for 154 days.

“Kids in high school want to party, they want to feel good.” -“Matthew”

When kids become teenagers, they usually try to assert their independence. Today, that has become more dangerous than ever. Natalie Huff is a 20-year-old college student from New Castle, Pennsylvania who was critically injured after performing a dare known as “car surfing,” riding on the roof of a moving vehicle. Dejah Reed is a 16-year-old student from Ypsilanti, Michigan who almost lost life her life during the cinnamon challenge. Natalie’s mom, Kim Huff, and Dejah’s father, Fred Reed, also join Katie.

“I saw it all over Facebook, all over YouTube, and I thought that it would be fun.” -Dejah Reed

Seth Leach is a college student from Denver, Colorado who makes money shooting and starring in dangerous dare videos. Why does he do these stunts despite the fact they could turn deadly?

“Money, hits online, publicity, free trips.” -Seth Leach

What is the best way to talk to your kids about drugs and other dangerous trends? A panel of experts shares their advice: Dr. Nora Volkow is the director of the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), John Scherbenske is a DEA agent, Rosalind Wisemen is a parenting expert and Mario Armstrong is a digital lifestyle expert.

“You should open up the lines of communication and talk about these things.” -Mario Armstrong

If you’re like most parents, you’ve probably peered over your child’s shoulder once or twice to see what he or she is texting. What you usually find is a bunch of letters that make absolutely no sense. So what does all this mumbo jumbo teen text-speak mean? Mario Armstrong knows, and he gives a crash course on how to decode your kids and their text babble.

“You’ve got to understand the letter and number combination.” -Mario Armstrong

Join the Conversation!

Click here for the National Institute on Drug Abuse “Shatter the Myths” pamphlet

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Have a Question About Teen Drug Abuse? The Experts are Here to Answer!

Dr. Nora Volkow: How Do You Know if Your Child is Abusing Drugs?
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Let’s Talk: What have you found out your son or daughter was doing that surprised you?

How to Decode Your Kids:
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For more information on Emily Bauer and synthetic marijuana, visit www.safe4emily.org
For more information on Dejah Reed and The Cinnamon Challenge, visit nocinnamonchallenge.com

Photos: Drugs, Dares and Other Dangerous Teen Trends
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Special thanks to Pacific Treatment Services, a substance abuse and behavioral counseling company working with teens and young adults in the San Diego area. They have a new book out on teen addiction.

Liked Katie’s outfit? Check out her entire look:
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