Tragedy in Connecticut

Watching the tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary School unfold has been devastating for all of us here at “Katie.” Our hearts go out to the families and all affected by the shooting in Connecticut.

The pain we feel for the community of Newtown, Connecticut is overwhelming, and the death of 27 people, 20 of them young children, is almost too much to bear. This weekend, Katie traveled to Newtown to speak with the families who are grieving such an incomprehensible loss. Among them are Mark and Jackie Barden, who are mourning the tragic death of their baby boy. Daniel was a bubbly and outgoing first grader at Sandy Hook Elementary School who leaves behind his two older siblings, Natalie and James.

“In one word, Daniel was a light.” -Mark Barden

 

Robbie Parker and his wife Alissa moved to Newtown eight months ago after Robbie got a job as a physician’s assistant at Danbury Hospital. That is where Robbie was when he heard about the shooting. The hospital went into lockdown and Robbie went to the emergency room expecting that some of the children might be taken there. He eventually made his way to the firehouse, where his wife Alissa was waiting, desperate for any news about their 6-year-old daughter, Emilie.

“The only way to move forward is to think about these beautiful children and their lives and be so thankful that we all had them.” -Alissa Parker

 

No one can understand the pain that the families in Newtown, Connecticut are going through right now better than those who have gone through a similar experience. Craig Scott and his mother Beth Nimmo lost their sister and daughter, Rachel, in the Columbine High School shooting and Joe Samaha’s 18-year-old daughter Reema was one of the 32 people killed in the Virginia Tech shooting five years ago.

“We’ve experienced that tragedy and it is a suffering nobody wants to go through.” –Joe Samaha

 

Whenever there is a school shooting, we are reminded of what happened at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado 13 years ago. Since then, there have been 31 more school shootings. Dave Cullen is the author of “Columbine,” the definitive book on that tragedy in Colorado. He explained to us what could drive a person to commit such a horrific act.

“There’s not really a warning sign that it’s going to be violent or mass murder.” -Dave Cullen

 

The tragic shooting in Newtown, Connecticut has brought two major issues front and center: gun control and mental health. Dan Gross is the president of the Brady Campaign to End Gun Violence and Dr. Harold Koplewicz is a child and adolescent psychiatrist. They helped us understand how we can prevent such shocking events from happening again.

“Another big important part of the conversation is background checks.” -Dan Gross

 

One question that we’ve all be asking ourselves since Friday’s tragedy is, “How can a merciful God let this happen?” Joel Osteen, pastor of the largest congregation in America in Houston, Texas, sat down with Katie to help us make sense of this question.

“God has given us all our own free will… Unfortunately, some people choose evil.” -Joel Osteen

 

Join the Conversation!

How to Talk to Your Kids About the Shooting in Connecticut

From Dr. Harold Koplewicz, child and adolescent psychiatrist and President of the Child Mind Institute

Other Useful Resources:

National Association of School Psychologists

National Trauma Intervention Programs

Click here for continuing coverage on the shooting

Katie at Candlelight Vigil in Newtown:

Amazing Grace Sang at Newtown Vigil:

Watch: One Family’s Story of Survival
Sibley_Family_300

Robbie Parker Remembers His Daughter, 6-Year-Old Emilie:
RobbieParker_630

Lets Talk: How do we make sense of the Sandy Hook tragedy?

Watch: Survivor of Columbine Shooting Offers His Support:
Craig_Mom_630

Photos: Candlelight Vigil in Newtown, CT

Pastor Joel Osteen on Finding Hope After Sandy Hook:
Osteen_BTS_300

Read an excerpt from “I Declare” by Joel Osteen

One Mother’s Plea For Meaningful Action – Today’s Katie’s Crew Contributor

Liked Katie’s outfit? Check out her entire look:
130780_OS_0492_300